happy ((belated)) valentine's day guys!
hope your day was great. this year's valentine's was great cos i received more gifts than i expected HAHA it doesnt mean anything tho. i didnt receive from anyone unexpected so it was sad lol but it's okay hahahah!!
of course like many others out there, i didnt really have a valentine. like duh, i'm single. my valentine was food cos everyone gave me food hehehe. and three of my friends who gave me valentines gifts included
"get a boyfriend soon"
in their cards so i gave them the face. you know, the face. that face. HAHAHAHHA.
valentine's this year made me realize that people actually care for me. i mean, i know that people actually do care but valentine's proved that i'm in their minds and they actually know that i exist and i'm not some outsider.
but (i know i'm not supposed to start a sentence with a 'but') this year's valentines made me realize something else. warning: this second part of my post will be kind of harsh for some people, so please dont take them to heart and start hating me.
i know everyone wants people to listen to their stories, their adventures, their embarrassing moments, their everything. but what i realized is that people dont really give a damn about your shit.
i was talking to my friends about my cousin(s) and they tried hard to look interested.
here's the dirty fact:
they're not interested at all.
i know my stuff and we dapitos have thing specialty of 'reading minds' ((not literally)) but i know that they're the least interested of what i was saying.
tell me; who would want to listen to a person talking about his/her cousin? no one. why? because it's not related to them at all. i mean- think about it. would you listen to something not related to you at all? maybe it might to some people, depends on what kind of a person you are.
if i tell you, "hey! i did you know that my friend came to donate to me earlier on?" will you be the least interested? maybe. you may be interested of who that friend was.
but if i tell you, "hey! did you know that my sister came to donate to me earlier on?" will you now be the least interested. i doubt so. simply because my sister isn't yours. why would you care?
and so if you want to tell someone about your adventures and stuff you did with some adults, i suggest you write a book about it instead.
/ahem indirecting people ahem/
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