since i'm doing tbh on askfm now, i'll write one tbh here hehe;
tbh i wanted to blog about my ndp experience last month but it'd take years to type out all of the details so i gave up haha.
anyways.
today i realised that i was so oblivious to what was going on around me. i realised that i had been so blind this whole time. all this time i was just in my own world, thinking that everything was perfect. but no. of course it couldn't be.
for the past few weeks i have been hearing different stories from different people in my class. they all had different views of different matters. and when i collected all these 'data', i realised that i was being blindfolded the whole time. I didn't realise of how some people hated others, or of how some people are backstabbing each other without them knowing (not referring to anyone here. just in case some of my classmates are hating on me.)
i realised that i actually had a lot of people disliking me. and i actually wasn't aware of this cos initially i just didn't care. i just didn't bother. but when people said they started disliking me because they say that i've changed, do you even know anything?
if you said that "oh Mary, you've changed." how are you to know that? perhaps i did because i became stricter than before. but then again if you said i've changed because of the fact that i've been appointed as a councilor, think again.
why am i asking you all to pull up your socks? why am i asking you all to stand up for morning assembly? why am i asking you all to keep quiet? (note: common sense?)
i'm sure you guys already know all the answers to these questions. those are simple school rules that i'm asking you guys to obey to.
from the start i didn't even want to change. i didn't want my primary school friends to change, in fact i didn't like change. i didn't choose to change, and those who said that i've changed a lot, i didn't even realise it myself.
so what if i've changed? who are you to judge me? do i still treat you the same way? have you known me long enough to know if i've actually changed from this kind of person to another? cos last time i checked, only my parents (and my sis) have known me well since birth.
moving on to another issue,
i don't like how some people are so full of words behind others' backs but when they face the person they become completely mute. they say so many things, so many swear words, so many complains, but they don't even dare to open their mouths when the person is right in front of them. isn't it a little illogical? i mean if you hate that person or how that person acts, just tell them. then they'd stop whatever they were doing to piss you off. wouldn't that solve the problem?
say it straight to my face of what you don't like about me, at least the outcome would be that i'd improve myself for you. wouldn't you want that? or maybe you wouldn't cos then you won't have anything to gossip about anymore. these kind of people are seriously weird.
moving on to the last one.
don't you find it a little stupid when someone's already pissed off and you still want to piss her off by joking. put yourself in her shoes. if you were the one who was pissed off and someone still continues mocking you. how'd you feel?
how to solve this? just shut up and don't say anything. why add fuel to the fire when you can extinguish it by keeping your mouth shut.
i usually try my best to keep my cool if my class gets out of control. you guys should be lucky that i don't just go around shouting at people. i'm still capable of that though.
and so lastly, whoever who finds anything annoying about me, be it my laugh, or my bad attitude (whatever it may be cos honestly i don't see anything 'bad' in my attitude), i'm sorry. so just have a mature mind and just friggin get over it. don't go plotting for revenge cos honestly that's just childish. ]
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